Aug 17 2009

Taking a Break

Okay, guys. I’m taking a break for a while. As you can see I only posted once last week. I need to think and refocus. Honestly, I’m tired. Writing about recovery is heavy and depressing, so I’m taking a break. How long? I don’t know.
Part of building a healthy life is that you have to [...]

Aug 11 2009

Sex Addiction Cure

While doing a bit of keyword searching I stumbled upon this phrase: sex addiction cure. The real question: Why do people Google for such a thing? There can only be a few answers:

1. To find a quick and easy way out of the sexual addiction
2. To know how to stop acting out
3. To know if [...]

Aug 8 2009

Three Rs for Recovery

Here’s cool little ditty: My Three Rs for Recovery. Here’s an excerpt:
R is for Remembering
The strongest antidote to fantasies about “how nice it would be if I could x or y or z” (plug in your addictive behaviors), is to remember the destruction those behaviors caused. That means remembering the bad parts (there are plenty) [...]

Aug 5 2009

Addiction Rehabilitation: We Don’t Have a Way to Accept That

A Quick Story:
Several years ago I checked out a book at the library about bicycle repair. At the time I was in graduate school and a bicycle was my main form of transportation, so basic maintenance and repair skills were needed.
Well, someone stole that book. Being responsible for it, I went online and ordered [...]